Over the course of the next 35 years, Ableman’s love for Miami has only grown stronger.
He grew to love the student-athletes he coached. The campus where he worked. And the community that he and his family have made their home.
And all of that is why, Ableman said, the decision to step away from coaching the Hurricanes and retire has been so difficult.
“When I was a diver, and there’d be coaches that were in their sixties, I’d look around and say there was absolutely no way that would ever be me on that pool deck,” Ableman said. “And it’s so funny that that became who I am. That’s what gives me a little bit more comfort in the fact that it’s okay to move ahead and move on. It’s not something anyone should do forever and ever and while I was very good at what I did, it’s time to be great at other things and put my passion into some other things.
“I’ll always be following the program and be a huge supporter of these kids. I look forward to watching them from the stands and the t.v. and to see where the next coach takes this program because it is absolutely set up for success.”
Ableman’s assessment of his success at Miami may be an understatement.
In his 35 years leading the Hurricanes’ diving program, he has coached 14 divers to 26 individual national championships, including most recently senior Mia Vallée, who won the NCAA 1-meter springboard in 2022.
He’s also coached 160 All-American performances and was named the College Swimming & Diving Coaches Association of America Coach of the Year nine times, the ACC Men’s Diving Coach of the Year six times and the ACC Women’s Diving Coach of the Year four times.
And Ableman, himself a national champion during his Iowa career, has coached 17 Olympic divers, including two who most recently competed at the Paris Olympic Games: sophomore Mohamed Farouk, who represented Egypt, and junior Chiara Pellacani of Italy.
Ableman, who qualified to represent the U.S. in the boycotted 1980 Moscow Olympics, has also served on the Team USA coaching staff at five Olympics and assisted the South African coaching staff at the 2008 Games.
But as proud as he is of the success he’s helped his divers achieve, the veteran coach is quick to note his journey at Miami has been about more than wins and losses.
He’s watched countless of his student-athletes earn degrees and he’s prided himself on creating a family-like environment that has helped those student-athletes feel at home, especially when many are so far from their own families.
“It wasn’t always a purposeful thing. It’s just the way I roll. And when you spend so much time together, when you’re training at this level – two practices a day, five days a week, and it can go year ‘round – you don’t just write a workout on a chalkboard and they go off and do it,” Ableman said. “There’s a whole interaction where you’re always critiquing and criticizing, so you try to throw a little humor in there to keep things fresh. And there’s just so much interaction that happens in coaching a sport like diving that I think it just lends itself to really getting to know people. The fact that it’s come to where I feel like they’re my kids and I’m their second father out there, it’s just the nature of how well we’re all working together.
“Like I said, it wasn’t an intentional thing or an artificial thing. It’s just what happens when people are passionate about what they’re doing. … And as an old man, that means everything. I don’t count how many victories or national championships there are, because every kid was great. It’s more about the process and the mutual respect and working together and achieving things together. It’s not just counting how many rings you have on your nightstand.”