“We worked so hard – days, weeks, months and on and on and on – to finally get to a meet like that and [have] everything on the line. And it was enjoyable, instead of [being] high stress, where it’s do or die, pass or fail. He’s always had that knack to never let the moment get too big and when the moment is big, the best comes out.”
Added di Fazio, “David was really a master in dealing with these pressure situations and fear situations. He used fear to his advantage and in my 27 years of coaching, I’ve never seen an athlete that could actually turn it on the way he did, competing on the 10-meter event. The more the pressure, the more dangerous the situation was, David was there to respond to that…To this date, I have not met a diver that can turn it on and deal with fear the way he did up there. He’s definitely one of the best UM divers that we’ve ever had and not only the best UM diver, but one of the best divers in the world.”
Since that magical night in 2017, Dinsmore has had to rely on his fearlessness in different ways.
Injuries continued to plague him throughout his Miami career, even as he posted All-American seasons in 2018 and 2019. In 2020, his NCAA title hopes and later his Olympic dreams were dashed – again – when a global pandemic cut short the collegiate season, postponed the Tokyo Games and sidelined thousands of top-notch athletes at every level of competition.
And while the Games eventually took place during the summer of 2021 and Dinsmore placed third at the Olympic Trials that June, he didn’t qualify for the team and was left wondering how different things would have been for him – physically – had he been able to compete a year earlier, as he’d trained to do.
“In diving, you try to control as much as you can, but you can’t control the uncontrollables. My injuries got to the point where I couldn’t train like everyone else and I couldn’t really be the athlete that I really wanted to be at the end,” Dinsmore said. “That was really tough. I was proud of myself, how I maintained a sharp mindset, especially going into my senior year. I knew I had…that was kind of it. We had pushed to get through 2020 and then to have Covid kind of play into that, too, didn’t really help.
“We knew that when we went to the meet and it was time to compete, it was time to compete. We did everything we could to make it happen. To kind of not go out on my own terms was tough, but I mean, such is life. Like Randy always says, ‘c’est la vie.’ You kind of take everything with a grain of salt. You take it for what it is and there’s a reason why I wasn’t meant to go to the Olympics and there’s a reason why I wasn’t meant to keep going. But to have had the impact I had on the University and on USA Diving and my teammates, that meant more to me than anything I accomplished in my career.”
Finding Solace – And a Future – On the Water
With his diving career behind him, Dinsmore found himself at a crossroads.
He began to look inward, trying to find what his next chapter would be. Not unsurprisingly, he found solace on – and not necessarily in – the water.
A lifelong fisherman who’d spent much of his life angling in the freshwater lakes and rivers of his native Ohio, Dinsmore had discovered saltwater fishing during his time in Miami.
He spent time fishing in the Florida Keys, in the Everglades and in South Florida’s plentiful canals. He discovered the bountiful waters of Biscayne Bay and the Florida Bay. His love of the sport even helped him build a deeper connection with Ableman, who is a fisherman himself.
In fact, more than once during Dinsmore’s time at Miami, Ableman encouraged his protégé to take a break from his studies, the pool, training and the weight room to get out on the water.
Balance, he told Dinsmore, was every bit as essential as the hours he logged diving.
“If all you do is think about diving 24/7, you’ll drive yourself insane. You need the outlet,” Ableman said. “You need other things in your life going well. That’s why I love being a college coach. The kids are in school. They’re learning, as well as being divers. There’s a symmetry and balance to the whole thing…We try to keep things in perspective, and it makes me feel good to see them develop to the point where they’re good at more than one thing.