Robert Barner
“It’s not over until it’s over.”
Heeding the words of Betty Jean Barner in the family living room on November 23, 1984, the Barners – on their way out the door for a family shopping trip – waited for the game’s final play, much to the delight of 13-year-old Robert.
Until, of course, Doug Flutie’s pass landed in the arms of Gerard Phalen, giving Boston College a come-from-behind victory.
“The moment I saw the touchdown, I was crushed,” Barner said. “I didn’t even know who Miami was at the time. But that was it. I told my dad, ‘I wanted the other team to win. I wanted the Hurricanes to win.'”
Barner grew up in a household of professional football fans, split amongst Cowboys and Steelers supporters. But from that point on, Barner would check in the TV Guide every week to see if the Hurricanes were playing and he could watch along with his dad, Robert Barner, Sr., and mom, Betty Jean, at their home in Fort Myers.
“I would only watch them and no one else for the next few years, and then the championships started rolling in,” Barner recalled. “They had my heart before I even paid attention to them or knew who they were.
“Through thick and thin, I’ve never looked back.”
Barner eventually joined the Air Force, where he was stationed 60 miles from Tuscaloosa. Two years into his tenure, Barner was talking up the Hurricanes to his best friend, a Crimson Tide fan, before the 1992 national championship game. It ended up backfiring.
“They were merciless,” Barner said with a laugh.
He didn’t get to make his first Miami game in person until the final season of the Orange Bowl, bringing his now wife along for the ride.
Though she wasn’t a college football fan at all before going to her first Miami game, it was during a loss to NC State where she developed a strong dislike for the Wolfpack.
Now the couple has raised their daughters – Bianca and Sloane – to cheer for the orange & green on Saturdays in the fall.
“We’ve only tailgated three or four times,” Barner said. “We don’t have any traditions like that – we’re just grateful and happy to be in the stadium every time we make the trip.”